People with autism often have problems making friends.
They may show no interest in interacting with others including family members.
It can be difficult to make eye contact or they may avoid it all together.
They may avoid hugs or touching or only accept hugs only under special circumstances (allow hugs only if they are hugged from the back).
Often children don’t engage in pretend play. Instead of pretending to feed a doll they may just move the different parts of the doll back and forth instead of pretending to rock the doll or put it to sleep.
Appear to be unaware of the people around them, recognize when others are talking to them or appear deaf because they don’t respond to sounds.
They may show an interest in their peers, but are unable to start a conversation, play with, or sustain a peer relationship.
Not engage in joint attention, they may not point at objects to show interest, like an airplane flying over, or look at objects when another person points at them
They may have the inability to show empathy, have trouble understanding another’s feelings or understanding their own feelings.
Exhibit signs of echolalia (repeating words or phrases said to them, or that they’ve heard from a video) instead of engaging in meaningful conversations.
Have trouble expressing their needs or wants using words or non verbal forms of communication.
Repeat actions over and over again such as rocking, lining objects up walking back and forth with no purposeful intent.
Have difficulty dealing with changes in routine or their environment.
Have unusual reactions to common sensory experiences (smell, taste, look, feel, or sound).
Lose developmental skills they once had (for instance, stop saying words they had previously learned).
Constantly express an interest in being alone.
Examples of Specific Language Issues
Has difficulty with pronouns and may reverses pronouns I/me/my and you/your
Repeats words/phrases over and over again instead of using purposeful language (Echolalia)
Can not initiate or respond to someone trying to start a conversation.
Can not maintain a topic of conversation, or makes comments that are unrelated to conversation topic
Has difficulty with abstract language - jokes, sarcasm, idioms, teasing, or similes
Inability to use the pronoun I, instead refers to self by name
Creates their own language by creating new words (jargoning)
Has difficulty answering questions and may an unrelated answer to a question.
does not point, respond to their name or to someone trying to get their attention or use gestures
They may talk in a flat or monotone voice
Examples of Specific ASD Repetitive Behaviors and Unusual Interests
Hand flapping/finger flicking
Stare at spinning objects
May toe-walk.
Does not play purposefully with toys, may lines up toys
Stare at spinning objects
Very dependent on routines or upset by changes to routines
Unaware of danger (e.g., may run into the street)
Stare at spinning objects
Mouths on or eats inedible items, sand, rocks, grass (pica)
Have a high pain tolerance or seem insensitive to pain
Have severe, long lasting tantrums for no apparent reason
Gets into a routine way of playing with their toys - plays with them same way every time.
Highly organized and rigid object placements
Has an obsessive interests in a subject or thing.
May walk over things (e.g., toys) and seem completely unaware